Netflix and the cold has been a thing for so long, we can’t remember when and where it actually started. Eve asked Adam to “bite the apple and cool it?” or was the Big Bang actually a movie that the microbes of our ancestors confessed?
Suffice it to say, it’s one thing and people actually use it to get data or to connect. Of course, it may not work as planned, because women know better today, but it is a funny ice destroyer – especially when expressed without any hint of harassment.
Even if it quickly becomes the most viral pickup line in the world, you can use it for the better – the better the search for a true friend. So, if you are wondering how to do this to your advantage, here are the steps you need to follow.
Step 1: Prepare your movie friend
# 1 Choose your friend. There are a lot of people who are willing to Netflix and get cold, but you have to choose someone who will appreciate your taste in movies and is not likely to kill you if you fall asleep in the middle.
# 2 Decide whether or not you want a serious relationship. Netflix and cooling means a temporary arrangement. You have to decide if this is a precursor to Hulu and get hired, or just a passing phase until you start looking for your next movie friend.
# 3 Give them some time. We do not recommend watching a movie in your home with a complete stranger. This can end badly in many ways, so it’s best to take the time to see if it’s worth sharing your subscription with this person.
# 4 Tell them you want to be Netflix and cool off. In reality, you should not use the current phrase unless you can deliver it finely. Due to the increase in its viral reputation, it could be misinterpreted as a sign against you, instead of a harmless joke to ease the tension. To get started, just try to ask yourself to watch a movie at home.
Step 2: Establish the logistics.
# 1 Buy food. Just follow the rules. Buy anything that can be eaten with your hands or placed directly in your mouth and make sure that nothing has ingredients that stay in your mouth for a few days. Oh, and we should round up the drink.
# 2 Clean your place. Nuff said.
# 3 Pay your roommate. Send them to watch a movie * or two * elsewhere.
# 4 If they don’t leave, pay them to stay in their room. Deserve.
# 5 Set a date and time that is acceptable to both of you. Friday nights are good, but you’d better schedule something for Saturday so your date doesn’t end up using the “I’m too tired from work” excuse.
Step 3: Set the mood.
# 1 Turn off the lights. And so it begins. If you can’t afford an electrician to install dimmer lights, don’t try to use YouTube to do it yourself. Just buy candles or a low cost lamp with warm lighting.
# 2 Make sure the room smells nice. Buy a few boxes of air fresheners or a candle – preferably something floral or woody.
Prepare your soft drinks. No need to create a pleasant presentation. As long as everything is accessible on the coffee table, you’re good.
Choose a bunch of movies before you arrive. Choose a movie that shows you the personality or personality you don’t have, but want to convey. Whether the date is a guy or a girl, the best bet is to choose something that will make you both vulnerable and emotional. The best choice then would be a Pixar movie. The notebook is a little obvious. If you don’t feel like crying, choose a really, really, really scary movie.
# 5 Play music first. Spotify presentation “R&B Alternatives”? playlist- a sure hit.
Step 4: When the date arrives.
# 1 Treat yourself to a soft drink. Hot drinks are for people who feel down, as Sheldon says. Offering a refreshing drink provides a welcoming atmosphere and can also lower your partner’s body temperature enough to want them to feed.
# 2 Engage in a little chitchat. It’s not boring-how-hell-please-gouge-my chitchat eyes. Ask questions. To be interested. Tell them about your birthday. Let me go.
# 3 Invite them to sit on the couch. Be sure to place plenty of discarded pillows near the ends of the couch. This way, your date won’t have enough space to be too far away from you.
# 4 Decide which movie you will watch. Present your choices by your date. If they have another suggestion, suggest it and we hope you finish the movie.
# 5 Watch the movie. Until the end. Don’t repeat – don’t, under any circumstances, skip your partner in the middle of the movie. This is for your own good. Delaying satisfaction can increase your chances of developing a deeper connection. This is also a good rule of thumb, as there is a significant possibility that your partner may want to actually complete the movie.
Step 5: After the movie.
# 1 Give them a few colder drinks. Take out the drink!
Talk about the movie. What else are you going to talk about?
# 3 Play music again. This playlist from the beginning of the year can still do the job.
# 4 Flirt a little. They say that flirting is an art. That being said, use the tools at your disposal, such as body language, consensual touch, and eye contact. It’s pretty easy, especially if you feel comfortable with each other after the movie. Just show your partner that they like it and that you want to see where it can go.
# 5 Chill. The definition of the word “cooling”?it is as easy as finding the meaning of life. It all depends on how you and your partner want to continue. Want to get more physical? Or do you just want to enjoy the evening and let the songs fall where they are?